Writer: Haewuan
Nationality: Korean
In the summer of 2007, I had the chance to study in Sichuan, China. It is a place where not many Korean people would choose to go, but since I love travelling it sparked my interest and I felt excited for the adventure. I really wanted to experience as many unique and special cultural things as possible during my stay there, so I went with quite an open mind and expectant heart.
With my determined attitude I managed to plan a trip through an agency in China shortly after my arrival. It was a package deal for an area very close to Tibet, and although the travelling seemed kind of rough, with eight hour bus trips and lots of mountainous terrains, we had a chance to experience exactly what I was looking for, the heart of the culture, and beauty of natural China.
We got to see many temples in the mountains, and because we were the only group of foreigners there – as I said before, not many people choose to travel where I went – the local travel guides taking the tours were incredibly intrigued by us and they asked us to sing Korean songs and show them some of our culture too (usually this happened on the bus, while it was shaking around and throwing everyone off balance mid-song!) It was these small things that made it quite a special trip, where I got to experience many cultures at the same time through the different travelers and local ethnic residents.
The whole trip was four days long, and while I have plenty of brilliant memories there is one place in particular that will remain unforgettable to me, for all the days of my life – the village of the Musuo tribe.
Apparently the purpose of visiting this tribes village was to purchase some special indigenous teas from the locals, and I must admit that at first I thought that it was just one of those added things in a package travel deal that forces you to waste your money… but to my delight I actually found something very interesting about the village, a completely uncommon sight.
There was not even one male to be found, anywhere.
When I looked around the village there were only women guiding and explaining their special tea culture to the little huddles travelers. After watching them closely I realized there was something strange about these women, they didn’t look like the other ethnic tribes women and their behavior and manner of speech was also very perplexing. It’s very difficult to describe the kind of confusion I experienced because while I could see that they were clearly female they were also definitely different from the average Chinese female and there was a strong sense of restraint and regiment among them.
After puzzling over all of this on my own for a while I asked the guide why there were no males in this village, and she explained that the Musuo tribe is known as “the Kingdom of the Women”. Every family is led by a capable female who is well respected by other members. All females have the right to make decisions in handling the family and tribe affairs. So in this tribe the women usually work outside and men stay at home and work as a “househusband”, if you would call them that.
To this day I am not really certain when the Musuo tribe started that custom, but it was quite refreshing to witness something of that nature, and see how much harmony they enjoy through their tradition.
I learned many things from my short adventure into the unique Chinese culture and I am grateful for how the experience helped me to broaden my perspective on life and the possibilities available to us.
In the world there are many different ways of life and different people who lives these ways. I could see how regardless of our traditions and cultures, one things is a given, and that is that all human beings desire to live in peace. Be it one way, or another, that goal is the same. Perhaps someday there will be an exact criteria for world peace, but until we can all hear it I hope our criteria will be simple… love! I hope to keep this precious experience and life-changing realization with me forever.